Learn From Someone Who Has Been There Before
However unique you may think you are, there is alwyas someone who has had the same dream before, and who will have left signs behind that will make the climb less arduous: the best place to attach a rope, trodden paths, branches broken off to make it easier to pass. It is your climb and it is your responsibility too, but never forget that other people’s experiences are always helpful.
—— Paulo Coelho 《Like the Flowing River: How to Climb Moutains》
Like the Flowing River书中有一篇是讲说Paulo Coelho的邻居在园艺方面很不成功，从来没有成功让花开花结果。这位邻居却很喜欢教导Paulo怎么种花，并分享自己的心得。Paulo并没有遵照邻居的指示去做，因为如果他那么做的话，他只会像邻居一样种不出花来。
虚心问人是对的事，但重要的是要问对的人。
