礼貌从自己做起
记得自己做个某个experiment,就是去购物时,笑或不笑。
我曾经尝试过,我去电影院买票,带着笑容选了位子,给了钱,我对他说谢谢,结果售票员仍然是贴着一张脸。
—— JE’s Home 《礼貌=奢侈品?》
起初我就试试看笑的效果,几乎去哪里,只要你对这服务员很开朗的笑,他们对你的服务也会好一点。我想大概我笑了,心里的感受也好一点,所以很多小事也不在乎。
然后我试一下摆一张臭脸,结果是几乎全部服务员也给我一张臭脸(除了那些老板规定他们一定要假笑的),你可以看见的是,那些你摆臭脸的服务员服务过你过后,也开始摆臭脸。
所以啊,你要马来西亚有礼貌一点,从你自己做起。
写到这里我忽然想起Chicken Soup很多故事都是说,一个人,一个笑,可以affect很多人一整天的mood。
Link: JE’s Home 《礼貌=奢侈品?》














4 则回应 to “礼貌从自己做起”
By angelapple on Jun 25, 2006 | Reply
也是.我很喜欢看到服务的人发自内心的笑笑的,下次要多对他们笑一下…
By sarah on Jun 25, 2006 | Reply
I think you are right, we should always treat people as how we want people to treat us back.
Came across your blog few days ago, i think your idea of short post is really good, good for you and good for reader too. Keep it up. Cheeers
By 黄德峻 on Jun 25, 2006 | Reply
sarah, i cna’t write short articles sometimes, lol, sometimes i just need to write a long one. :p
By sarah on Jun 27, 2006 | Reply
haha, it is fine. As long as they are meaningful which i think they are so far so good.